Sahih Bukhari 5255 [updated] -

This hadith teaches Muslims to look beyond the superficial or materialistic aspects of a potential spouse. While compatibility in attraction and lifestyle is important, the ultimate deciding factor for a blessed and successful union should be the character and piety of the individual.

The raising of the hand was intended as a gesture of reassurance, which the woman, in her fear, misinterpreted. Conclusion sahih bukhari 5255

The mention of "nor a servant" highlights Islam’s emphasis on worker rights. A master or employer has no right to physical discipline. The Prophet said, "Feed them from what you eat, clothe them from what you wear, and do not burden them beyond their capacity" (Sahih Bukhari 30). This hadith teaches Muslims to look beyond the